May Doom and June Gloom

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My luck ran out a while ago….

I must have broken a mirror or a glass sometime late April. I am sure I have been granted 7 weeks bad luck.

Why the past month has been the hardest.


As the half of the world was welcoming Spring, we in the Southern Hemisphere were starting to bundle up to guard against the cold. Unfortunately, I had to stay bundled both outside and inside the house. The heating in our building was turned on later than most apartment dwellers I knew. When it finally did heat up other apartments, ours was the only one left without heat. Something wrong with the pipes that held the hot water, or whatever…I never got a concrete answer, because even after a week of calls from the owner, the architect of the building, and ourselves, no one ever came to fix the heat. Thank God, our dear friend Gaby lent us a space heater, but we still woke up every morning not wanting to get out of bed due to the freezing cold floor and air.

Around this same time, ET went to Buenos Aires. It was a decision we both made, that he would go for two weeks while I stayed in Montevideo in order that we could go home in June. Unfortunately, that same week our internet service ended, and it was super challenging to communicate with ET via our house phone. The connection was bad and the calling cards were expensive. Antel, the internet company, refused to renew our contract for one month more with out making us start an entire new contract complete with the inscription fee. Funny thing about contracts in Uruguay, they don’t seem to always hold water. Our provisional contract had an explicit renewable feature, contrary to company “standard practices,” and those “practices” won over the contract.

So those things were hard – no ET, no internet, and no heat.

A trip to Salto soon after ET came home was a welcome treat. However, it was slightly peppered with disappointment, as our favorite onsite restaurant was closed half the time we were there. Food being one of our most enjoyed comforts, we were obviously disappointed in having to eat at the near by “tenedor libre” or all you can eat buffet.

Then came June.

June 2nd was a Saturday. Five days before we were due to fly home. Our realtor called on Saturday and requested to stop by to drop our deposit. Well, she wanted to drop most of all deposit and keep $400. To us this did not make sense, as $200 was more than sufficient to cover all of our bills to date. To make a long story short, this Saturday afternoon visit turned into four days of hell – arguing over the phone and in person, consulting with escribanas (paralegals or notaries), friends, other real estate agents, friends of friends, etc. Our priority became winning this war, and getting out of the apartment as soon as we could with our security deposit that was due to us. The results:
We had to leave a day early than we expected, as the realtor claimed the contract ended on the 5th rather than the 6th
We ended up having to represent ourselves, as we could not find an escribana (notary) to come at the last minute. The defensor de consumidores turned out to be very hard to get a hold of and once contacted, rather unhelpful. I get the impression that if you had A LOT OF TIME to wait-for-them-to-get-back-to-you, they may be of some service.
We had to pay for some things that we didn’t agree upon such as an extra month of “gastos communes,” cleaning of all the window curtains, and an 8 hour cleaning of the house. (None of which will probably actually be done but were used to “extort” money from us. Apparently someone moved in the next day.)
We paid no more than $200 for the bills and all listed above, just as we had originally suggested. Thus, she did not walk away with $400, and everything was settled that day.

The good thing that came out it? A reminder that we had such good friends that were more than willing to lend a hand, offer advice, and support us as much as they could. It was also a great reminder to GET EVERYTHING IN WRITING, and that in writing should be DEFINED (for example, cortinas sano? Sano could mean intact. In the end it meant, “just like new”) Second, if you are renting in Uruguay: 1. Have an escribana present while doing in the inventory when you move in and sign the contract. Have that same escribana present when you move out. 2. Do not leave your deposit in the hands of the owner or the immobilaria, but open an account and deposit it. Anyone can do it, and it costs about 4 pesos.

Then came June 6th.

I woke up and it was blue skies, but by early afternoon the fog had rolled in. I didn’t give it too much thought until the same blanket of thick fog was present on June 7th – my birthday and the day of our departure. We left Montevideo without a hitch. We were completely on-time and air bound for only a half hour. When we landed our pilot mentioned there would be a slight delay. So we waited….and waited….


And waited….


And, well, we are still waiting.

I am writing from the “Red Carpet” (trust me, not very glamorous) business class waiting room in the Buenos Aires International airport. It is 3:00 am. I'm going to curl up and try to sleep...I'll be back to tell the rest.

10AM 8 June 2007 -- The fog effectively shut down the airport last night. We were unloaded from the plane after waiting aboard 4.5 hours with little but water and pretzels.

Once off the plane, we arrived to immigration and customs to find no one able to answer any of our questions about what we were to do. We finally decided to enter Argentina to try to get in touch with a United representative because the American Airlines reps were thoroughly unhelpful telling everyone that they had to travel into Buenos Aires (about 30 min away from the airport) without luggage and pay for all expenses themselves because carriers cover nothing if flights are cancelled for climate issues.

United stepped up to help us when we located them by offering their Red Carpet Club room to sleep in and by providing snacks for us to eat. (Dinner: mixed nuts, apples, and crackers. The staff, some of whom were off duty, went the extra mile making “pizzas” out off cracker-toast, cheese, dried oregano, and a microwave.) They also found the key to the potent potables cabinet. =)

We have slept about intermittently for about 4 hours and are using the free wireless to communicate with you and check the weather forecast. We hope that we will be on a plane tonight granted the fog lifts. (For the record, they tell us this fog is unprecedented for its effect on Argentine aviation. Que suerte)

Honestly, this has been more of an epic than an adventure with all the ups and downs of this past month. Needless to say we are more than ready to be home. Perhaps I wanted to be home too much. Perhaps I jinxed us both. Who knows. I remember when our friend left us in mid- April, thinking it would have been nice to be on that plane with her. But lessons have been learned, friendships have grown deeper, and memories (good and bad) have been made.

Don’t get me wrong…I am still looking towards our next trips. Mexico, Hawaii, Australia, and Spain are all calling out to me. And those are just in the near future. I have big plans for us to travel the world for the rest of our lives.

And to repeat, the kindness of our friends has been more than amazing. People invited me over to use their internet, someone brought me a heater and offered a better functioning phone. Several friends offered their apartments for the two days we had no place to sleep. We were treated to dinners, given going away presents, and received kind words. Friends alone would be a good reason to visit Uruguay in the future. But perhaps we will go during the South American summer….and crash on couches rather than try to rent.

The blog will end soon now. Thank you to all our readers, we have enjoyed keeping in contact.